I think we're there, too. We will still get each other something "cool" from time to time, but if it happens near the holidays it's coincidence. Earlier this month I found a beautiful matching dragonfly ring and necklace set (it was pretty slick, a gold coloring technique based upon heat levels, similar to coloring titanium with heat) while we were in the southern Caribbean. I couldn't pass it up, but neither of us really considered it a Christmas or Chanukah present, it just "was".
And we open a bottle of wine most nights anyway :p