Try this site. www.mcmaster.com
They sell high quality taps. Look at this page: http://www.mcmaster.com/#taps/=3ov173
It explains the different types of taps. If you have a thru hole in a plate, a spiral point tap will work really well. I've used these both with and without backing up. Also depending upon the thickness of your workpiece, you might even be able to drive it with a power drill, although I wouldn't do it in a piece that was critical or irreproducible. Besides lubrication, the most important thing to do is to drive the tap in squarely. Torquing the tap off the axial direction is the most likely reason that a tap will break. One way to prevent this is to drill a hole in a wood block vertically that will guide the tap in and start the tap with the block clamped in place over your workpiece. The "H" number specifies how loose the resultant threads will be relative to the intended screw. The usual spec is H3. An H2 tap gives you a tighter fit. The coated taps, titanium nitride, are only slightly more expensive, and seem to cut very smoothly. The number of flutes affect the number of cutting edges but also might mean a tap has less metal (and hence strength). Another consideration, mentioned by someone is how much oversized the initial hole is. The larger the hole, the lower the percentage of thread supporting the screw. Obviously, the more oversized the hole, the easier it is to tap the hole (less metal to remove) but you give up strength in the resulting screw hole. Consult a table of recommended clearance holes for the material you are working with. I guess before people get upset with me mentioning a power drill, I would like to say that it can be done, but only with caution, and after you have some experience, in non-critical work.
Anyway, buy the taps only as you need them because you can be assured that you are likely starting with a fresh tap or one that you know the history of, and most importantly, the quality of, relative to getting a box of taps that may be of questionable quality.