Thanks for your comments everyone.
Spray foam might be best, but I don't need the best. I'm not so certain I would want spray foam regardless. I have the rigid foam, and have no other foreseeable use for it.
I'm trying to put this in perspective.
The house has survived with window A/C units, space heaters and no soffit ventilation, pathetic ceiling insulation and no wall insulation for 54 years. Granted, I haven't been living in it, but I would venture to say that 1/2 the houses in this town don't have a lick of wall insulation.
I gave an analogy to my wife this afternoon, comparing the inside of the roof deck to a pan that has been on the stove top. If you picked the pan up by the bottom, it would burn your hand bad. However, if you put on a cooking mitt, you can hold the pan just find. You have insulated yourself from the heat of the bottom of the pan.
Why wouldn't 2" of foam not have the same effect from the radiated heat of the shingles? Surely it has to have value, and I'm thinking significant value.
Why is rigid foam the go-to choice for commercial building roofs, and it's not appropriate for residential?
My buddy has spray foam in his new house, built by a high-end custom builder. It seemed awesome when the house was being built. When I walked into the house after it was insulated, it was like walking into an underground cave it was so cool - and the HVAC was not even on and it was the middle of summer. However, it also has a big drawback in his scenario. It's not his primary residence, so he doesn't run the A/C it all the time. If he does not keep the air on, or turn it on an hour before he arrives (via his phone), his house is hot. It takes forever (read, about an hour) to cool off. If doors are left open while you are there, again, it takes a long time to get the temp back to comfortable. How convenient is that? How is that the best system? Was his A/C undersized? No, it was sized for use with spray foam.
I don't have final numbers yet, but here is what I would anticipate:
Qty=60 sheets of 7/16" OSB @ above the polyiso would run just over $500
Qty=12 of 2X6X12' (ripped to two pieces of 2" widths) would provide a border around the roof (~200') and at the ridges (~80') @ $8 each = ~$100.
Qty=4 rolls of 3' X 150' tar paper for the extra layer @ $16 each = ~$70.
Qty=2,500 4.5" screws to go through the 7/16" OSB, through 2" foam and into the original deck. (They don't make 3.5", or else I could use those). (I took the 8d nailing schedule of 41 nails per sheet and used screws instead. But seriously, who installs OSB that uses a nail every 6" of the perimeter and 12" OC for the interior of the sheet? No one I have ever seen.). 2500 3.5" Headlok screws on Amazon would cost $800. Wow.
Labor - will find out tomorrow.