I was talking to my wife about how I couldn't understand why my siblings didn't bid higher on some of my dad's stuff. It really wasn't costing us anything as the bill was credited to a future inheritance so eventually I will have less money than they do but I have things that I can enjoy now. My mom could easily live another 20 years before we get that inheritance and then there is no guarantee it will be there. My wife replied "Well your memories shouldn't be tied to things; you should have those memories even if you don't have the things." I think about things, mull them over for years sometimes and have been thinking about that. I have tools from my grandfather, a number of uncles, and my dad. Every time I pick them up to use them I think of the person that used them before me. I don't see how that could be wrong somehow. When I walk into my shop my grandfather's anvil is setting to the left of my table saw, center stage, and I think of him every time I walk past it. It is a pleasant feeling to realize that they used it and took care of it and now it is up to me to take care of it. My concern would be that if I have nothing with memories tied to then I will slowly forget about that person. What do you think?