Like others have said, test the water and septic. Local counties will do basic water testing for around $20. Shop around for septic inspections. Prices vary a lot. Same thing with septic pumping. You can make it a condition of the purchase that the sellers pump their septic and have it inspected.
Depending upon the age of the house, there should be a Septic As-Built and Well Log on file with the county Health Department. You may even find Soil Logs to go with the As-Built. Some counties are great and all it takes is a phone call and they will email you the data based on the parcel number or address. Others require a trip to their office. If there is no well log on file, you will need to have a well driller come out and create a log for you.
Regarding Wells. You'll want to know the GPM and drawdown of that well. You'll also want to know if it's a shared well and who has to do the maintenance. States & Counties vary, but you typically need to keep a 100' buffer around the well head to prevent contamination of the water (livestock and septic system should not be in the buffer zone.). The less GPM the well produces, the more you have to conserve. We had neighbors (elderly couple) with a 1/2 GPM well and they had to collect rain water to flush the toilets and do their laundry in town. If they filled the livestock tank, then they may not have water for dishes, baths, etc because the well was so slow to recover. If the well only produces minimal GPM, then a large 1000+ gallon holding tank is typically used. It's basically up to you on how often you test your water. If it is known to have some stuff in it, I personally would feel more comfortable to test it more regularly, while others test it once and call it good. Lots of good water filter systems out there too. (That has been discussed a few times on this forum.)
Regarding Septic. Gravity, Pressure, Sand Filtration, Mound, Glendon, pumps, no pumps, timers, alarms, so many different options out there. Some types of systems you rarely need to think about, while others require regular monitoring of the timers to pump X number of times a day. This is another thing they don't like to have livestock on in case they damage it by digging or whatever. You also don't want to drive heavy equipment over a drain field in case you happen to crush something. Landscaping is also a factor. You don't want to put plants on it that have root systems known to damage septic systems. If the septic is on timers, they will need to be reset/reprogrammed after power failures. Some States and Counties require regular inspections now and will provide a homeowner class so that you can do your own inspection.
If your area is prone to power outages, then you may want to consider a generator for the well & septic, but only if the outages are for days at a time. If power only goes out for less then a day, you can get by with the water in the pressure tank, hot water tank and lines as long as you don't go overboard.
As for garbage disposals. We don't use them. Any (non-meat) food scraps are given to the livestock.
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