I am/have never been a fan of oak. I have exactly 3 pieces of oak furniture in my house. 1 I built in shop class when I was 11 and didn't know any better. In fact, the shop teacher let me pick white oak for the legs and aprons of the night stand and the drawer front and top are red oak. Other than the fact that it was my very first piece of furniture I hate it. The other 2 are mission style end tables my wife wanted. They are quartersawn, have really nice straight grain patterns and are stained pretty dark. I actually kind of like them because they don't look oaky to me. Now, all of the cabinetry in this house is that cheap a$$ crap like the BORG sells and stained light golden oak for on the 1990s. Hate it. I despise the way the ply veneer looks. I tossed the powder room vanity out last year, the master bath is going this year. I will paint the guest bath vanity to save money.
Finally to my question, if you were in my position and you were looking to sell a home in a year that was filled with crappy cabinetry you don't like, and frankly can't be objective about, what would you do? I guess I'm looking for some guidance on whether I am in the minority and most folks are OK with oak, or am I the majority and I need to do something about it. Now, if it were you and felt it had to be changed, would you paint it or replace it? I don't want to dump a ton of money because I worry about the return on the investment. If its replace, what species? I like hickory but I bet many don't because it probably looks unrefined to some. Also most other species are not a cheap date. I'm stuck because I know what I prefer but really don't know what the majority of the population likes. Thanks for any suggestions or feedback, or even just a quick thought on where you stand on golden oak cabinetry. All the input will be helpful.