Thanks all for your information. Mine is an off brand bench grinder (Astro power) with 6 inch wheels and one piece tool rests. It is stated as 3450 RPM, is that too fast? The wheels are the dark gray (cheap) type. One is coarse, one is finer. Its a fine grinder for sharpening lawn mower blades but I never tried to do a real tool. Both wheels are pretty bad shape and could use a good dressing or replacement. I will look into the white wheels - I think Rockler has them but I don't recall seeing them at Home Depot or hardware stores - maybe I just missed them.
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I think steven and George are telling me the same thing - I will give the C clamp idea a try and see what happens with these wheels
Oh, and Joshua, counter to the way I see it done on the pictures on the internet such as FWW site, I was thinking to pull out the tool rest, get the tip of the chisel pointing downward in-between the tool rest and the wheel and then push downward on the handle to rotate the bevel up, into the wheel. That's the direction I have been going to do my lawnmower blade, just can't use the tool rest to do it.
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