The only time running things simultaneously would be a problem is if they are on the same circuit and the total load exceeds the breaker capacity. If you have a large machine, one that draws close to the ampacity of the breaker, you should have other outlets in your shop that are on a different circuit. I have my DC on a dedicated circuit because it's always running when one of the larger machines are running.
The whole concept behind using a single pole, 120V circuit vs. a two-pole 240V circuit is the two-pole circuit allows you to use smaller wire because the load is split across the poles. Distance from the panel usually only becomes an issue when that distance becomes quite long. Then the resistance in the additional length increases the overall load. Many jobs I was on we'd automatically up the wire size when the distance got to around 150'.
The dimming of lights you are experiencing is caused by the start up load of the jointer. It requires more power to take a motor from a dead stop to full capacity than it does to keep that motor running. But if the dimming is substantial, you may have a wiring issue or just had too much of a load already on the circuit when you started your jointer.