Making a bench top is a big project, and just because you are working with relatively cheap materials it doesn't make it easier to do, just easier to accept the frustrations of it not working out.
For something like this I would reconsider joining your local woodworking club, or even finding a woodworking school in your area. They will have the equipment you need and hopefully people there who can give you some guidance on what to do.
Where are you located?