What is the best finish for kitchen cabinets. They are made of Alder and i plan on putting a golden stain on them. I have seen before like in shellac that they have a golden stain clear mixed into one. I know alot of you don't like poly finishes but aren't they the most durable? The family i am building these for are pretty hard on there stuff. It always seems they have alot going on in the house. Thanks
Josh