Well, after lots of reading and searching, I think I am going to do a 3 part assault of BLO, several coats of a tinted de-waxed shellac, and then top it off with lacquer or waterlox.
(I may possible replace the lacquer with waterlox, since I have leftovers of waterlox from a previous project and would rather put it to use than have it sit and go bad).
I would stop with the shellac as the top surface, but for a bathroom vanity that will be in a secondary (IE: eventually used by kids) bathroom, I want some more of the water/general wear-n-tear resistance of lacquer. Going to get some flakes and mix them in a 1 1/2 - 2 lb cut and practice with them this week.
I suspect I will pad on the shellac and smooth it some with light sanding and then brush on the lacquer (deft brushing lacquer) and rub out the lacquer final finish till it is smooth.
Someone tell me if this seems like a good plan. I am anxious to try some new finishes and add it to my bag of tricks. The rubbing out of the lacquer seems to be the same process of the shellac, so if I learn to do it with the shellac, then I have the method down for lacquer (someone correct me if my assumption is erroneous).
Thanks in advance.
(I would post this as a continuation of my previous bathroom vanity thread, but I suspect I wouldn't get as much feedback)