My wife and I recently purchased a used crib. It is 100% solid red oak that has a very dark stained finish. We like the fact that it is solid wood, and the overall design of the crib, but SWMBO would like for me to paint it in an off-white color to lighten it up. We also have a changing table made out of pine, and I am making a dresser, so painting seems to be the best solution to make all of the different pieces look like they go together.
My question is, what is the best way to go about this? My gut tells me to clean and sand the finished pieces, then prime and paint. Where I need some help is on the details. What grit sandpaper should I use? What primer and paint should I use? Should I top coat with something like a water-based poly to increase durability?
The current plan is to scuff sand the furniture with 220 grit paper, hit it with a tack rag to remove all sanding residue, then prime and paint. Based on other recommendations for painting furniture that I have found in the forums here, I am leaning towards using a 100% acrylic product like Sherwin Williams ProClassic Waterborne or Benjamin Moore Waterborne Satin Impervo. I don't know what primers to use under those products, but I'm sure the folks at the paint store do. (Luckily I have both stores within 5 miles of my house.) For applying the paint I have an air compressor and a spray gun, but I haven't used it before so any tips on spraying acrylic paint are appreciated.
This has turned into a long post for what is basically a simple question: What is the best way to turn this dark stained red oak crib into an off-white painted crib? Picture of the crib and my spray gun are attached.