I feel reasonably competent in the making of dovetails as functional joints, but I have problems fine tuning the fit. The advice you see everywhere is always along the lines "wherever it's tight, pare it down." That's pretty vague.
The problem I have is figuring out just where it's tight. In a joint with 4 or 5 tails, that's 8 or 10 mating surfaces. What I've been doing is fitting it as much as it will go, then sighting along the length of the tails and in between them to see where there's contact. I scribble with a pencil by what appear to be the high spots, then pull it apart and pare on them from various directions, trying to avoid crumbling and tearout.
While this mostly works, it invariably ends up with inconsistent gaps. Some of them can be ugly.
I'm looking for a procedure or strategy that will give me consistent gaps. Maybe it just comes down to more practice, but if I'm doing something wrong, I'd like to be able to correct it.