FIGURED IT OUT!!!!!!!!
There's a page in the settings where you specific the depths of cuts for each pass. So you do that, send it over to the machine, manually bring it down close to the work top, loosen the cutter, let it slide down until touching the top of the work, tighten that up, hit the button, it returns up in Z, then takes off, cuts the work, using multiple passes as well.
My test piece in aluminum has paint drying in it as we speak!
See, all it needed was a threat to quit!
Thanks for the help from all, I guess I can go home today and say "I learned soemthing"
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