I am building a dining table out of Mahogany. It is a trestle table that is 7ft long and expands to 10 ft with a hidden butterfly leaf ala a FWW article. The plans are ones I drew up combing 3-4 articles I found with properties I liked about tables. I'm more or less an advance beginner/intermediate woodworker and this is about as advanced as anything I've tried. I'm thrilled with how it has worked to date.
The finish I have so far used another FWW article "bringing the best out of Mahogony" that has gone fairly well. I filled the pours with Pour-o-pac dyed a little darker than the wood, added several coats of dewaxed shellac and finally 3 coats of Pratt and Lambert 38 Alkyd Varnish. I really like the way it looks.
I didn't want a super glossy table and more importantly my wife didn't want it to be super shiny so I used a satin varnish and it looks good, but certainly not glossy.
The last step in the FWW article is to use 0000 steel wool followed by paste wax. I ordered some brown Antiquax as I've never used paste wax before and I found several articles that seemed to like it and suggested that clear wax would not look as good.
I've let the table cure for a month now.
My idea is to rub medium hard, with the grain, with steel wool with no chemicals or water and then apply the paste wax by putting it in the middle of a piece of cheesecloth and using lots of elbow grease in small circles, but trying not to apply too much wax in any one spot and finally buff it off with a rag when it starts to glaze over.
I may then put on a second coat of (possibly clear) wax on top.
My biggest questions are as follows
1) Is this the right way to finish my finishing? If not I'm open to suggestions (for example I saw the Wood Whisperer comment that he doesn't like to use wax at all and I really like his shows so this gives me some concern).
2) Does the steel wool need something on it to help such as naptha or a tiny bit of wax?
3) Some suggested applying the wax directly with the steel wool, but this seemed to function mainly to dull a glossy surface and this surface does not need to be dulled if anything slightly more sheen might be nice, but it doesn't need a dramatic change. Does it thus make sense to use steel wool first and then add the wax as I suggested or do I need to skip the steel wool entirely or use some other approach?
4) Should a second coat of wax be clear or more brown or is one coat sufficient?
thanks in advance for your advice.