Well, for Christmas my wife and I got the idea to make our daughter a coffee table. I got a stain grade wood shelf (a glue up made from 3" boards basically) from Lowe's to use as the surface, it's a shelf that was 16" across and 48" long. I routed the edges and sanded it with 100 grit paper on my 1/4 sheet palm sander. It was all I had at the time and I thought it would be enough. During the routing of it a couple of the knots in the center actually fell out so I glued them back as best I could and when they were dry I had to sand them flush with the surface again so those spots got more attention than the rest of it did.
When we stained it I could see marks left in the surface from the sander, so, as I should have done from the start, I went back to Lowe's and got some 150 and 220 grits and came home and re-sanded the entire surface with a fresh 100 grit, followed by a 150, and then a 220 to finish. I got a lot of the marks out, but some just would not come out. I can't sand it anymore because the routed edge is starting to thin out in places so I have to live with it now. We stained it fairly dark to help hide the marks and it took care of most of it (I actually thought it was going to make them show worse but it didn't).
My question is, had I started with 100 grit and followed with 150 and 220, over the entire surface, would this have not happened?? I'm also unsure of how fast I need to move the sander as it crosses the board. I sanded in the direction of the woodgrain, not crossways, but I admit I'm bad to change directions in the middle of the board, or swirl it over one spot, as I did in the sanding of the knots to smooth them down. Also when I get to the end of the board and reverse direction again, I basically "hang a loop" and start back the opposite way. The second time I sanded it all down I only allowed myself to pass from end to end of the board in a straight line and come off the board completely before starting back the other way. I have no idea what technique I should be using. All I know is I have marks and do not exactly know what I could do to prevent this in the future. I also recognize that some of what I was doing must be wrong, such as the swirling. So what's the proper way to sand??