Robert, from the rest of us, the reality is with any of the coarse stones that they will eventually get after the electroplate on any of the diamond hones. The finer stones don't so much do it.
The shapton (and everything) favorite for a reasonable price is the atoma (buy it from japan if you ever do get the itch, that's where it's cheapest), but that doesn't mean that you have any reason not to use the diasharp or for that matter any reason to buy an atoma. If a shapton 320 eats a diasharp (in my experience, the 220 is very hard on pretty much any diamond plate), then it will also eat other plates (because of the coarse and aggressive abrasive).
If you do come to the conclusion that the plate is losing its plating too fast, you can switch over to loose abrasive (shaptons rip apart sandpaper) for the coarse stones (like below 700 grit ratings) and save the diasharp for the finer stones.
Shaptons lapping plates are no exception to eventually getting clapped out, unfortunately. The price in them appears to be for the flatness spec..and the brand name.
Cheap silicon carbide loose grit is fine if you end up going that route to keep the shapton 320 flat and its surface fresh and fast cutting.