Though this is not an ice pick as push stick thread it is a TS safety thread and so I will chime in on the push stick conversation. For a very long time I have been using my home shaped metal push stick and believe it gives me the very best control - far surpassing any wood type push stick I have ever ever used. I do not use an ice pick but rather one made from an old paint roller frame. It is a bit longer than an ice pick and has a handle specific to my needs. I like the soft metal and I keep the tip pointed enough to securely hold the wood - hard or soft - but not so pointed that it doesn't let the wood go after the pass. It has saved me more than once with never any close calls in regards to the nature of the push stick itself.
I don't use the metal stick for anything other than carbide blades.
No matter what others choose for a push stick the important thing is to use one and to be comfortable with your choice. I wouldn't trade my metal one for anything else but I don't ask anyone else to use it either.
Alan I'm so very glad you averted a catastrophe. I'm pretty sure we all have our stories of near disasters and sadly some folks have stories that don't end well. Keep your wits about you and woodworking will be nothing less than satisfying - with a few diversions into utter frustration - but that just adds to the fun. Take care.
"... for when we become in heart completely poor, we at once are the treasurers & disbursers of enormous riches."
WQJudge