I made a good friend a cutting board for Christmas and have to finish it with a product without tree nut oil. I was going to do paraffin and mineral oil but couldn't find paraffin so I used Howard's butcher block conditioner. Its mineral oil, bees wax and carnuba wax. I applied it warmed up and 4 coats, its seemed to stop soaking it up at that point. problem is when I run it under water to clean it, it soaks the water up amd raises the grain. so I soaked it in plain mineral oil to the point that mineral oil seeps out of pours after I wipe it off. but it seems to still soak up water. Am I missimg something or is this normal? Seems it should repel the water more or am I thinkimg wrong? Any help would be appreciated. Thanks!!!