I kept changing technique and media without mastering any one.
This is a common refrain from the chorus of the sharpening song.
You may often hear sharp is a moving target. I used to think my tools were sharp. Then I learned to get them even sharper. Currently I can get my blades sharp enough to shave. I look forward to learning more about improving my abilities and getting my blades sharper still.
There are a lot of techniques. Many of them are confusing. My suggestion is to start by keeping it simple. You will hear a lot about 'hollow ground' blades. That is what happens when a standard grinder is used. It cuts an arc into the blade. This is the easiest to work with when learning freehand sharpening. The blade can be felt to 'click' as it registers on the honing media. It is helpful, but not necessary to learn good sharpening practices.
Once you can repeatedly make two planes meet, the back of the blade and the bevel, then you can 'experiment' with all of the other blade preparation 'tricks.'
There isn't a need to go buy something new. What is needed is to learn to work with what you have. For the longest time oilstones didn't seem to work for me. It took me learning to sharpen with water stones to learn to appreciate and use my oilstones.
Christopher, what is your location. You may live near another member who would be willing to take some time with you one on one to help you with your sharpening.
jtk
"A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty."
- Sir Winston Churchill (1874-1965)