I need opinions and options for a project on my hunting rifle's stock. It appears to be birch with a pretty heavy, matte topcoat which has some deep scratches but not into the wood in most cases. I'm a bit afraid to sand into the finish because I fear that the stain is laid on without much, if any, penetration. My most wanted plan is to strip to base wood and stain the stock gray but what would be the best option for staining? I don't want to completely lose the grain but I'm afraid that the factory does a better job with consistency on birch than I'm likely to achieve. BTW, I'm usually just a lurker here because I don't have much to offer the group.
TIA,
Chiz