I can't blame my wife but I wish I could. The big lesson is listen to the inner voice. I knew better so it's my fault. I did test this on a small part but I still knew better. Anyway, the LOML looked it over and agreed it lots like ...... well lets just say it's never going to look good.
So, we discussed options and we decided to salvage it we would paint <shudder> the base. I have started stripping the top. I took my #4 plane and started planing the top down past the stain. I will finish it natural.
It's a disapointment but it will still look good in the room it is going into. And it is better than scrapping it. So, just remember to listen to your inner voice!