I have a very rustic, dark walnut dining table (please see attached, table is even darker than pictures). Because our dining room is just too dark, I am considering somehow lightening the table in the hope that doing so will help lighten the room. I am unsure of the current finish, but it seems like the top has some thin varnish or just oil; the legs and frame appear uncoated. The table has been distressed in the past, and it has lots of crevices with very uneven color, which I find attractive. The legs are particularly rustic (and dark).
My (major) restrictions for this project are: the table needs to be put back to service very soon, it might be difiicult to take it outside the room, I cannot really generate a lot of sanding dust, and we have a small baby in the house (ie fumes are a problem)
My tentative plan is the following:
a) Remove the current finish somehow, either by sanding or using some "safe remover" (those that remove shellac and laquer but not poly or paint). The problem is that the many crevices and dings, where the color is darker, and where sanding, or remover neutralizing, will be difficult
b) Use two-part wood bleach to lighten the color of the wood. However, fumes will surely be a problem. I don't know how much bleach will lighten walnut; if not a lot, then this might not be worthed...
c) Topcoat with something that will not darken the wood again. Because I want to keep a rustic "on the wood" finish, not a film finish, and because I really don't want to do any sanding other than light scuff-sanding (again b/c of all the crevices), I wouldn't like poly or laquer or waterborne poly, and would prefer an oil, oil-and-wax, or oil/varnish blend, or even a wipe-on varnish (but the latter might need sanding between coats). I don't aim for a lots of protection and assume that something like oil/varnish blend will allow this rustic table to continue to age naturally -- but I want to have some protection anyway, as this is still a dining table. What product would be more suitable?
(After writing this post, I am beginning to ponder that maybe I might just want to leave the table as is, particularly because using anything other than waterborne poly will produce fumes and I will have to send wife and baby for many long walks outside the house. I don't want to paint the table white, and we don't want white table cloths or runners, so I might as well learn to live with a dark but nice table in a dark dining room... and realize that walnut is supposed to be dark..)
Thanks in advance for any comments and suggestions.