Hi Thaddeus,
First, let me welcome you to the Creek -- great group of folks here with lots of great info.
In terms of your tools, it all depends on what you want to do and how you want to make things. Using sheet goods for your cabinets and you would be fine with a table saw and router as your first primary tools. If you start to work with a lot of solid lumber, then a jointer and a planer will help greatly as stock is rarely flat, straight and true from the lumber-yard. With that said, you can get by picking out straight pieces. Another option would be to get any solid lumber dressed at your supplier for a nominal fee.
As you gain experience, your tool collection will grow allowing you to tackle other projects more easily.
I am sure that others will weigh in here too.
Scot