I did a lot more woodworking when my children were little. They pretty much grew up watching dad build stuff. I'm happy to say, it rubbed off on them and both are handier than most. My daughter is a Miss USA title holder (a real girly girl) and is building her own "pageant room" as I type this. I've got no advice for you on how to handle your move. I will say that the type of activities you do around your winkins will shape the adults they become.