School has started in Texas. My son is in 6th grade. He is in a new middle school, and has been there for about a week.
For the first time, he has different classes with different teachers. He seems to get along fine with all of them.
The first few days he talked enthusiastically about all the different things they were doing in PE that he had never done before. He likes PE, although he has never been in the top of his peer group athletically. He is not overweight (thank goodness he got my wife's genes), but is actually skinny for his age.
Today, however, the activity in PE was running laps, and shuttle races. The last 5 students in each activity had to do extra pushups and situps. I understand the coach is trying to motivate the kids to never be last, and get them to push themselves. However, is it appropriate to punish the "slow" kids all the time? If your kid is always last, what does he learn from being punished? Isn't it enough that he is humiliated by being last?
Now, before you tell me that my kid should "try harder", let me give you one more piece of information. My son has asthma, sometimes severe. It is seasonal, so that usually October and March are his worst months. However, with the drought in Texas, he has had more than his usual problems. Because of his asthma, when it comes to running, my kid will almost always be last. We have taken him to swim team the last few years, where he swims everyday for most of the summer, and he is always last. He simply does not have the lung capacity of other children his age.
So what do we do? Do we tell the coach we don't want him punished for being last? Then he would have to sit out, and my boy does not want this to happen. He does not want to be singled out or given special treatment, but as a parent, I wish the coach would not punish the last 5 boys.
For the coaches out there, is it common practice to make the slow kids do extra pushups just for being slow?
I really don't have a problem with a few extra pushups and situps, but if he is assigned extra laps in the Texas heat, I will be speaking with the Superintendent immediately.
If there are any other parents of children with asthma, I would appreciate how you might handle this.
Anyone else is free to speak up as well.