I've been married now for 20 years. Often people I haven't seen for years (I am presently living in Aus so seeing old friends happens only after infrequent trips home) ask what's the secret to our marriage as we appear to be so happy together. Often the question isn't are you married it's are you still married... Personally, I have absolutely no idea what the secret is and don't try to speculate in case it jinx my marriage (long story - too long for here). So for those that don't suffer such a superstition as I what's your take on a happy long lasting marriage?
PLEASE NO CRITICISM OF THOSE WHO WANT TO CONTRIBUTE! Let people have their opinions.