Interesting to me that in the YouTube video the guy rubs the Spyderco with his "coarse" DMT for a while, yet I did not see any change to the Spyderco. The DMT was the type made with clusters of diamond, set I believe in plastic. I see no evidence of which stone was cutting which or which had the flatter surface at the start.
Some of us sharpen: CTS-204P, ELMAX, S35VN, VG-10, CPM S30V...not to mention the many custom proprietary "powder" steels being made these days. Maybe if Stewie was too he might find the need for a "harder" stone.
How long have "we" been flattening stones anyway? I may be dating myself but, I believe I remember Stanley at Shapton writing the first article I remember reading on the topic of flattening Shapton sharpening stones and it does not seem that long ago. I am guessing that 100 years ago people got blades pretty sharp without flattening their stones every time they used them.
When I was a kid, with no sharpening stones, my cousin and I would grind sand into old "punk" wood and sharpen our old carbon knives & tools pretty sharp with our home made "hones". Oddly I do not remember how we flattened them.
Seems to me it is all relative.